Archive for July, 2007

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Independence Day in Rogers Park

July 4, 2007

Looking out from my third-floor balcony, most people would say I don’t have much of a view. An alley runs below the porch, and other than a couple of church steeples in the near distance, the immediate view consists of backs of apartments, a traffic light, a small segment of my street, and a parking lot. Yet, it’s rarely uninteresting to sit out there and take it all in. City life is largely characterized by a bombardment on your senses: sirens blaring, people constantly on the go, indistinct noises in the distance, a constant flow of planes leaving or coming to Midway and O’Hare – even the occasional odd smell drifting your way. It doesn’t matter how late you’re out there, there’s bound to be something going on.

Another fascinating thing about my neighborhood is the diversity. Not only is there a glaring sense of economic diversity among living spaces, with burgeoning condominiums shooting up on street corners beside a mishmash of low-income housing, one-family brick houses, multi-story apartment complexes, and two-flats, but the racial and ethnic diversity is even more acute. The 2000 U.S. Census reported Rogers Park to be among the most racially and ethnically diverse communities in the country (second behind somewhere in New York City, I believe). Anywhere you go around here, there’s a mix of every shade, color, and shape. Shop at Devon Market, and you’re apt to believe you’re at a corner market in Bucharest or Kiev. A short walk from there holds much of the best Indian cuisine in the city, and keep walking for another few blocks and you’re in the middle of the neon lights of Mexico City. There’s an Iraqi art gallery, a Pakistani hair dresser, many Thai kitchens, an eastern Asian liquor store…all within a very short walk of my apartment. Even though gentrification threatens to push out many of the ethnic minorities from an area whose affordable rents and welcoming spirit attracted them in the first place, Rogers Park remains microcosmic of the American Dream as a whole – people from all over coming together, making ends meet, and trying to lead an honest, happy life. Coming from an area of St. Louis dubbed affectionately by some as Mr. Rogers’s Neighborhood, where my idea of ethnic dining was a night at Taco Bell and of racial diversity was watching a movie on cable, the past five years I’ve lived in Rogers Park have been eye-opening, if nothing else.

As I sit out on my balcony tonight, with the official Independence Day festivities having long since wound down, the celebration in this hodgepodge community in the far northeastern reaches of the city is only getting started. Stepping one foot off the bus at my street tonight, the smell of fireworks and smoke flooded my nose. There’s been a near constant barrage of fireworks for the past four hours, finally dying down a bit in the past hour, now with only the occasional blast or sparkle. This is my first Fourth in Chicago, and never before have I seen such a steady stream of unsanctioned fireworks; it’s almost as if people in the community coordinated how they would time it to make sure the celebration run deep into the muggy summer night.

Tonight in Rogers Park is a true American celebration. How do you say “Happy Independence Day” in 80 different languages? If you listen closely, amid the rumbles and screeches of the fireworks, you may be able to pick up a few. It’s in the air tonight.

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Jack Jack the Milk Monster

July 1, 2007

This is Jack. Pretty damn cute, I know. Jack has become a very important and even symbolic little boy in my life. Born December 5, 2006, I came to know Jack through Kids Club, when his mother, Anne, would drop baby Jack off in our care while she would work out at the gym. Jack and I formed some sort of bond over the days and weeks ahead, and that bond became even more obvious as Anne, closer in age to me than any of my own siblings, and I got to know each other better and formed a bond of our own. I gained her trust in a way that has allowed me to babysit her little angel and house-sit for a week while they were away on a holiday. Last week, over dinner and a beer with Anne and her husband, she confessed that she feels like I have become part of her family, and she even offered me a invitation to live with them should life bring me back to Chicago next year. Jack and his parents will definitely be among the people I miss the most when I leave this city.

Jack also means a great deal to me in a very symbolic way, a coincidence that I only realized a few weeks ago. On the very night of Jack’s birth, an otherwise dark and chilled December night, Lisa and I broke up. Breakups happen, and they’re rarely easy for either person, and this was no exception. I tried my best to hold my head high during the day, but once night fell, I would inevitably lose my composure, raw emotion guarded only by the silence and privacy of my own bedroom. I quit my job, moved home for a week, and went on a last-minute ski-trip to Colorado before moving back to Chicago with no job officially in place — the second time in five months I had pulled off such a feat. Just as Jack and his parents entered a world of firsts, I entered my own time of new beginnings. The time came for me to relinquish control and build fresh, knowing that I could not alter the past but hoping I could help shape the future.

To me, Jack represents the promise and amazing possibilities that accompany any change. The winter months weren’t easy for me, but as I began my job at Kids Club, I slowly uncovered a world that would brighten my days and nights. Not only did I truly love going into work to hang out with the kids, parents, and the staff, but my coworkers grew into my group of friends. On any given night of the week I can be assured that there’s one of them who will want to go out and do something with me. Birthday parties, softball games, dinners, movie nights, barbecues, house parties, game nights — there’s rarely a dull moment with this fun-loving group. I don’t think I’ll often again be out on a Monday night with a buddy singing “Minnie the Moocher” standing on top of the bar with only our bunch and the bartender in the whole establishment. Even though Jack still has never hit the bars with me, I definitely consider him part of the reason why I’m there with an incredible group of people beside me.

I’m very sad to be leaving behind Jack, Anne, and the rest of Kids Club, but from darkness comes light. From love came Jack. From pain comes renewal. I had a job that will forever rest favorably in my memory. I made new friends, went on good dates, went on bad dates, laughed about it all, took new chances, entertained new thoughts, and challenged complacency. As I move my operations down I-55 to St. Louis, it’s time to do it again. I know I can.

Jack Jack, I raise this bottle (of baby milk) to you. For you I dedicate these final two weeks in Chicago.